relationships
disclaimer: as for some teenage r/s, they go a long way. so no offence. and some teenagers are v. matured. but i think generally, the r/s is short-lived and teenagers tend to be immature.
relationships in a romantic way is a very touchy topic.....but i think i have to state my viewpoints on this topic, especially r/s between teens.....
in a way, i think i have gone through plenty of relationships, and i think i rather be single. one of my relationships was when i was 13......it was quite short-lived....i met this guy on a holiday in korea and voila......relationships can happen anywhere and everywhere, but usually not school for me, as the other party would form preconceived notions due to other people's impression of me.....
since then, and before 13, i have a string of r/s....more or less casual. cause' if i took it seriously, i think i would get hurt, as they mostly never took it seriously.....taking it seriously FOR ME means thinking abt the person all the time and neglecting your studies......
as for many guys, i think at a teenage age, they tend to be more fickle and playful....and childish, as for girls, they may tend to get jealous easily in a r/s.....
so that guy, who i will call ben ben(to protect identities) is kind of childish......somehow, to make me jealous, i think he keeps doing PDA with other girls......so, why give him the satisfaction of seeing me get jealous? hehe.
and the guy who i was with in secondary school, dated his gf, broke up, then came back to find me....then we dated in a bgr way.....bf-gf...stuff....then he got back with gf again.......so, whats the point?
i think, seriously?!!!and then there were some other r/s....and i think the guy was nice, and cool....but somehow it does not work out.....
to me, alot of teenagers may lack the maturity......in a relationship.....
i mean, c'mon raging hormones....AND CRUSHES WILL PASS IN NO TIME....
two adults=mature r/s
one adult one teenager=semi-mature r/s
two teenagers=not mature r/s
when i wanted to be in a r/s::
it was for the following reasons:
i needed to feel loved, cause' i felt unloved.
i needed to feel attractive, cause' i am like the most unattractive person in the whole wide world.
everyone else seems to be in a r/s. peer pressure.
pressure from media and magazines.
but if we can't love our own parents or people who raised us up and fed us.......how would we be able to love someone who hasn't invested years into us?
and we have to learn to love ourselves first. i tried and failed miserably, so i am finding stuff such as happy activities and watching tv to distract myself.
if you are christian, you should know that jehovah god and jesus christ give us unconditional love which a r/s cannot offer.
so, as a person who is too immature,superficial, and fickle, why get into one.....
and i had a crush on this teacher, but it faded after a few months.....
i think i liked that guy cause' he is like an auditionsea character, but the attraction faded.....
when i become a full-fledged adult, i think i would not like to date either......its not what its cracked up to be......
its a novelty.
being in a r/s is like that, like being a cat....when you're a pet cat, you have the love and affection of your owner, but you yearn to have freedom....you like your head being stroked......
but when you are a stray cat, you have lots of freedom, but you yearn for love and affection!!!
there are days when i wake up and wonder what would it be like, to receive a text message from someone special.....
Are u optimistic?
Wierd?
Intuitive?
Anythin abt yourself.
- My Adores -
Chocolate?
Or maybe Vanilla?
Scented Candles?
Long walks at the beach perhaps?
- My Detests -
spoil brats perhaps?
or backstabbers?
maybe clowns?
why not cockroaches
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Songs stuck in ur brain.
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